For My Ladies

Ladies you are your partners helper!!! wow – that’s a hard statement to swallow for a woman of our generation! 





On Sunday after church i was talking to one of the ministers, she was rushing home to make dinner for her husband and i was like' if he is that hungry he will cook for himself since he is at home and he knows where u are'. I then got a lecture lol which i will break down to you.

when God created Eve, she was created to be a “helper suitable for him (Adam).” That is the wife’s purpose. It is quite plain in black and white. When you act as a “helper suitable for him , you are glorifying God.

In this generation it is  hard for women to sit back and simply help their partners – we are tempted to lead them, boss them, criticize them, expect them to take care of themselves and us, be tidy, and a helper to us. But in actuality – they are not our helpers – we are their helpers! God desires that they be servant leaders and the head of the house but whether they are actually doing that should make no difference as to our attitude of being their helper- hmmm deep!!!

So we have three things to consider:

1: Know your partner. 

Know his likes and dislikes and help him in the areas that he has asked for help. Pay attention to areas where you see he needs help.

2: Do not compare your relationship to your friends, sisters or even your pastors! 

Your partner is unique and you are unique; therefore, you have a unique relationship You must seek to please your partner and no one else.

3: Do not wait for your partner to “deserve” to be helped. 

We should do what is right no matter what others are doing around us . This is very hard lol especially when they have wronged us.

Our strength to be his helper must come from our walk with God. When we stop fighting what God has created us to be – we will find peace and blessing even in the midst of a difficult relationship. 

It is a hard pill to swallow at first because of pride but when you realize how natural it is, it’s a beautiful thing! When you realize this then everything starts falling into place, after all that was said and done i said to her this is all beautiful and makes sense but i cannot be a slave neither a dunce, best believe i got a spanking lol xx

Lindsay Lohan Rant!!

Hello Family
hope all is well and good, so on my train  journey to work this morning i was reading in the newspaper how Lindsay Lohan  had been released from prision early.





The star served 13 days of a 90-day sentence and taken straight to a local rehab center — where she is expected to spend the next 90 days. It had been expected that the Mean Girls actress would be released from jail early due to overcrowding in the California prison system and the State’s credit system for good behaviour.


She DIDN'T behave well in jail! From all accounts, it sounds like she was as obnoxious as she could possibly be. It's not like she could actually do anything BAD, since she was locked up in a cell for most of the day, but still that is such a pathetic excuse




Ok stuff like this piss me ryt off, you never hear of non celebrities serving only 13 days out of their sentence, this is pathetic  celebrities are humans just like me and you, that's the more reason why they should be disciplined the more because they are potential role models/icons/idols to younger kids.


She should have spent all 90 days in jail. If she wasn't (arguably) a celebrity she would have. If I was one of those other inmates that has to serve my full term while people like Lindsay, Khloe Kardasian, and Michelle Rodriguez walk after a short period of time I would sue the LA County jail and the sherrif for discrimination.

It then went on to say '"Lindsay is very upset that the judge ordered her to go straight to rehab…[Lindsay] feels that she deserved to spend a day with her family after she behaved well in jail.'


"feels she deserved to spend a day with her family"…

She got special treatment, and spent 2 -ish weeks of her 90 day sentence. When a person breaks the law, is found guilty of the crimes, and goes to jail that person isn't owed anything, by anyone - other than their basic human rights ( i.e. access to food, water, a place to sleep). It's not a "right" to see your family, it's a privilege.
Because of …."how well she behaved in jail" ?
Didn't she aggravate the others (inmates and staff) by screaming and crying the whole time?



If this was to happen to one of us normal joes we would still be in jail. Money talks once again. This is not news worthy. I dont like to see a certain kind of person get special treatment we are all the same. Send her back to jail.......

This is upsetting

Blogville ive missed you, hows it going???  I know i said i would never leave you for a long amount of time but i have been ever so busy in the real world... if only there was a bloggers app on BB... forgive me????


Anyway so i was on the train this morning to work and i was reading the newspaper as per usual. Today's paper was just full and death, but what really struck me was the story about the man who killed himself his wife and his two girls aged 2 and 1, this really disturbed me and is still disturbing me till now, to know that we live in the same world as these sick people. Headlines in the paper read 'Delivery driver who murdered wife and daughters before hanging himself 'had money worries' and was £7,000 in debt'

Apparently they were £7,000 in debt and he couldn't handle it so he killed off his family. 
There needs to be more support for people in debt. More helplines where people can call if they are having a real low. I can't help thinking there must have been something else going on too because why would this make you want to murder your loved ones?
It isn't nice going through such a time but to harm your own family and in such a brutal way. I don't know how someone could do such a thing... to such innocents. It's just awful. 

father who murdered his wife and two daughters before hanging himself had mounting debt problems, it was revealed today. 

Andrew Case yesterday inexplicably 'snapped' and stabbed his family to death in their home in a quiet market town.

His daughters, two-year-old Phoebe and one-year-old Nereya, were fatally knifed just a few minutes after the once devoted father had also killed his nursery teacher wife, Vicky, 31.

The 32-year-old then hanged himself at the couple's rented family home.

- Guardian Newspaper

          This is just sad!!

SOME AFTERNOON ENTERTAINMENT

I cant stop laughing at her delusion, this is a major OMG!! lool enjoy

Im gonna show my genetials ..... men are stupid i dot even respect them looooool

MAJOR rant!!!!

When i see the Media going hay wire because Cheryl Cole has Malaria it really disheartens me. Alot of people die everyday in Africa because of Malaria and no body gives a damn about it, but when almighty Cheryl Cole catches Malaria the whole Media and world is going crazy. Good riddance to Bad Rubbish!!!!


The chief executive of Comic Relief has said that it is “deeply unfair” that singer and X Factor judge Cheryl Cole has caught the potentially killer disease malaria. Err excuse me its unfair that millions of people die of Malaria every second and nobody is aware of it.


I saw it on the News yesterday and they are still going on about it till today, they need to recognise important and urgent things.... right about now that is not as important as the Gun Man that is on the lose.


They need to fix up!!!!!




     

Alicia take it easy nowww

I saw this Video on Bossip.com on Alicia falling down whilst performing... why wont she fall when she wears those massive heels and is always prancing around the stage. Its the baby i feared for, i hope they are both ok... she recovered from it well doe.

Just take it easy girl

My Weekend

I had an eventful weekend, we had Church Sports Day which nobody turned up for, it was a hot beautiful day but nobody turned up.... but if it was party now or some sort of 'Faaji' hmmmm i shall say no more.

After the sports day i went for a friends Birthday Party, i had fun catching up with friends i hadn't seen in a while it was a very interesting day.

Sunday was Thanksgiving, danced away all our problems and sorrows from June....Its a new month new problems new blessings.

Hope you had a great weekend..... have a wonderful week ahead
much luv
xx