Tuesday, 29 June 2010
Its the little things in a relationship that keep it buzzin
As relationships mature, grow and develop people can sometimes forget the little things that can have a positive impact on the quality of the relationship these are in three categories: Simple courtesies, simple pleasures, and simple words.
Simple Courtesies: As relationships mature, grow and develop people can sometimes forget the little things that can have a positive impact on the quality of the relationship. I put these in three categories: Simple courtesies, simple pleasures, and simple words.
Simple Pleasures: Such as sending flowers, greeting cards giving inexpensive gifts for no reason that say you are special, I was thinking about you.
Simple Words: I'm sorry, I forgive you, it will be OK, I know how you feel, I believe in you, I have confidence in you, you can do it, I'm there for you. This list is endless as well.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah.. blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.
Dont give me material things just give me your love, let me feel secure and confident that you love me.
Now a days people confuse material things for love, that's not love.... little things from the heart that nobody has to know about is a big turn on.
A phone call to see how im doing, check up on me, compliment me would go a long way as to a 'Gucci bag'. Lets learn to appreciate our partners make them feel secure