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Thursday, 31 December 2009


James 1:26-27  if anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless. Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.

This verse is quite explanitatory, Christianity these days seems to be all about music and clothing lines, recycling the same christians and artists at the same concerts and shows, what ever happend to doing what the scriptures said in Jamed 1:27 ...looking after the poor, the orphaned, the widowed..... christinaity is more than  this.

I'm afraid, when most people think of religion, they do not think of God the Father. They do not think first of Him and the spiritual blessings He provides in Christ. They think of church stuff (people, groups, organizations, buildings and movements). We are strongly influenced by the religious culture of our time - which is marked by denominations, churches, organizations, human tradition and ritual. It will be to our eternal advantage to identify religion first with God. Right religion is man's response to Him. When man's response is in keeping with His instructions and is expressive of
faith in His Son - then you have "pure and undefiled religion." Anything else is vain.

We as christians need to fix up!!

Wednesday, 30 December 2009

wow a couple of hour left till the new year, doesnt it annoy you when people say 'New year, New me' like please get over your self you said that last year and the year before and the year before that....like wotevaa....
so ive signed unto fb as usually lol and  at least 10 people have posted this to me on chat

 ' right girls let's have some fun. write the color of the bra you're wearing right now as your status on fb and dont tell the boys. they will be wondering what all the girls are doing with colors as their status. forward this to all the girls online\'..... 

And i go to my homepage and what do i see, diffrent colours on girls status.....welll call me old fashioned or stiff necked but this is what i feel about it.........
1, Its not funny
2. its not actually fun
3.Its not amusing
4.Do you really think guys dont know what your talking about

Several guys have asked me, wassup with female colour status and i pasted them the msg...and in common what they have said  is ' hw would a guy respect u when u aint got no class, some girls need to rethink' SNM!!!!!!

Woah hoahhhh bring on the hate mail :)

Monday, 28 December 2009

is there anythin wrong with guys wearin Ugg boots ....

I went out today and i saw some guy wearing Uggs and coincidentally its someone's status ryt now on fb  and you know what he made it look perfectly normal to wear lol, I think it totally depends on the guy. This isnt my first time seeing guys wearing Ugg boots  I've seen some cool guys wearing them and they look good but also I've seen some less attractive guys who look a bit stupid!

I cant understand the fuss over guys who wear ugg boots? theyre only shoes- and look great on them, as they do girls.BDW Uggs are unisex so its kool :)

I love seeing guys wearing Uggs , its daring and diffrent especially the black or dark brown ones they look so good on them. topman from what ive seen do a good selection ... the best look ive seen is when u see a guy in a pair of dark brown/black uggs, dark blue jeans and a nice collard cardy or something like that.. such a lovely look.


Sunday, 27 December 2009

mini rant!!!!

Ok so im guessing everybody has heard about the latest failed terrorist attack carried out by the 'Nigerian guy', ok so i have a major issue right now... like everyone is going crazy simply because his Nigerian, at first i was like ahh nahh disgrace bla bla bla..but like have we all forgotton that he is actually a stern hard core muslim who has links with the al-queda crew, so ........ also why are people and the media not mentioning that the man is also a British citizen?. that this guy was traveling with a British pasport?. Or does it just sound better for the media to label him a Nigerian national instead of a British citizen. 

Obviously like what he did is soo not cool, so wrong so so wrong, people should focus on the incident and not his nationality, his so dumb that he only injured himself and on top of that it failed....wasteman

i bet tiger woods is jumping up and down happy as hell that we aint talking about him, lol sorry it had to be said woooohooooooo :) below is the picture of what the mugg looks like

Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab with his mother (file image)


Ahh lovely blogsville, hope you had a lovely Christmas, i know i did. This year i didnt give any presents nor recieve any and to be honest it felt good, i was thinking earlier today, imagine if you had a massive birthday party and people you invited came even pple you didnt invite also came, and then the whole focus shifts from you and is now on other people that you invited, instead of briniging gifts for you they bring for each other and nobody actually acknowledges you.... sad aye?? thats how the Saviour feels when we forget he is the reason for the season and when we get carried away with turkys and presents and the whole shebang :(

Anyways so theres a puppy in my house, which im really trying to get used to lol, my parents (typical Nigerians) want it out of the house, like they dont understand what a Nigerian boy is doing with a puppy lol, its cute doe....

So im back now, finally got that weave of my head, but now i have to watch what i eat coz the fringe has gone- damn it lol!!

Boxing day sales this year erm.... MEGA WACK!!!!!!!!

Thursday, 24 December 2009

Food Porn

Kim Kardashian is so overrated. Lol, how stupid is this, a fabulous job of simulating sex with a chicken salad. Bravo. Especially in this day and age when young girls are looking for role models, Kim Kardashian makes it very clear that you need no talent, no message, no pride to make a career out of nothing…

Kim is a very pretty girl but she has this little girl sense of humor and I am sure that she thought this is so cute…but its retarded. this is a bit much………no matter how hard one tries…………..salad will never be sexy, Who the hell eats a salad in the bath tub??? Gross advert and honestly it wouldnt appeal to me either. No one wants to see food spilling out of someone's mouth GROSS!

LOL this is so weird…make her stop please…. AND WHY does she need to take a bath?! Awkward…….

Tuesday, 22 December 2009

So this is somesones status on fb which I really agree with, its from a guy bdw:

Beyonce, makes out like she's some black queen, perfect role model, miss independent, girl- power bull. But all her videos now she has her ass and tits out. What happen to classy women? The days when a girl was a girl not doing short back and sides or selling themselves cheap. We have to pick wives outta this bunch, may God help us lol. Classy women stand up.


well to be honest im no hater and miss b does her thing but to consider her a role model no!!!! sometimes when i see her in videos i wonder what she is really like in person she seems so humble on interviews but if you need to make up an alter-ego im inclined to think that that is the real you and the interviews are all an act! in her videos she’s basically teaching the kids how to be burlesque dancers and definitely how to work the pole. no good!!! entertainer is all that she is and beauty comes from within and shines out not through provocative ness. you are beautiful with your clothes on and young ladies look to your parents and POSITIVE people as role models, entertainers puts up facades!!!!

Beyonce Knowles could not help feel flattered after being told by the First Lady Michelle Obama that she was a role model for her daughters.


Beyonce is a great entertainer, and business woman, but role model for little girls is a stretch. I would agree she is a great role model for other female entertainers and business women, because she has created an international brand,  in one breath she's singing "Halo", and "Flaws and All", and in the next she's poppin her crotch, and slow winding her behind half-dressed on the screen singing "Video Phone". I wonder if they'll let Sasha and Malia grind to the new "Video Phone" song she has where she's asking "Do u wanna see me naked?". That comment the First Lady made to her should have been kept on the DL because I am not impressed. I enjoy her because  I am mature enough to understand the 2 sides to her , but little girls and boys won't. So hopefully there are certain songs and images of Beyonce that are filtered for the little ladies!

Something i found on FB

Someone showed this to me on FB last night, found it quite humorous, but i also want to know if it was true? most of the things can relate to girls as well

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

8. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful.If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much some guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

25.When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

33. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

34. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

35. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

Monday, 21 December 2009

what the heck

Lol i dont think she was laughing about the murder, probably about his mugshot but not about the actually murder, and the worst thing is once you start laughing you cant stop, it happens alot to me ( p.s i know this is old)

ITS SAD !!!!!!!

File:Brittany Murphy.jpg

Its sad to see another celbrity go, how many celebrities have passed away this year, and what most of them have in common is ' cardiac arrest' wassup with that?
Didn't really see her face that much, but i guess she was loved by many, may her soul rest in perfect piece.....

Thursday, 17 December 2009


Argghh so ive been looking thru alot of party albums on Facebook lately because im looking for an Ankra style to sew, and in all the albums that ive seen ( apart from shocking pictures of aunties i know jumping from party to party) are pictures of girls that have revolting and gross instaled lace wigs.....Recently i notice that there has been an epidemic of bad lace wigs. This turns people off of wearing them

like come on girls, lace wig is not for everyone, just because you see celebrities wearing it dont mean it look good on you, stick to your weave, and if you have to do lace wig please go to professionals that will install it properly for you and dont get excited because you see£60 lace wig if your gonna install lace wig do it properly and pay the full £200 , tighten up on your lacfront game!!!! Glue hanging out and all, its not cute.EVERYBODY CANT WEAR THEM & EVERY STYLIST CANT DO THEM!!!!

Congratulations Miss Paula O

You the old saying give honnour to whom honnour is due well thats  exacttly what im going to do to the winner of the 'Top Model of Colour Competion' that was recently held in Gambia

Miss Paula is defnetly a model to keep your eyes on, Born in Nigeria on the 21st of June 1990
Paula is the winner of the 'Top Model of Colour Competition' Gambia 09'
 she was discovered when she was a teenager. She has been featured in numerous magazines and catwalk shows like the alternative fashion week, afro hair and beauty show, ‘’So beautiful’’ fashion show & the untold London fashion week just to name a few.

have a look at some of her recent shoots below, theres something diffrent and ecentric  about her work theres no suprise to her winning the competion.....

She is defnetly someone you need to look out for.....
Show some love and join her FB page at  http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/pages/Miss-Paula-O/111249624534?ref=ts ( or just type in Miss Paula O )



Ok so after listening to Alexandar Burkes new single ‘Broken Heels’ I have to say Im soooo annoyed with the song choices she is getting. Regardless if they write their own songs or not, UK artists with soul voices are getting much better choices than her, whats all that about I thought ‘ Bad Boys’ was a one off never to repeat itself thing but then this….. Im confused. Her voice is beautiful and this is what they give her to sing? It sounds like something left of Britney’s album lool…..

I haven’t heard all the tracks on her new album but I do hope this isn’t a representative of what all her music will sound like. The song is annoying and sounds like something you would hear playing in Bluewater whilst doing your Christmas shopping. The video and concept...like we are tired of ' whatever a man can do a girl can do better' kinda thing..... shes got a very beautifull and amazing voice, lets just hope all her other songs arnt like this.

she won the X Factor last year she was doing so many interviews saying how she wants to go down the soul/ R&B route. A year later she comes out with BAD BOYS

If I remember correctly, soul/R&B were the type of songs on X Factor that allowed her to shine and we loved her for it. I really dislike this pop route she’s going down. It does absolutely nothing to show off her voice. I hope she switches this up for her next album and this won’t be representative of her future sound. Plus if she wants to make it BIG outside of the UK they’re going to want a lot more than this. Its much better than bad boys tho, but im trying to understand where she is going with all this.

It’s a thumbs dowm for me luv !!!

Wednesday, 9 December 2009

Would I Be Right In Concluding That Alll Men Cheat??

Very touchy and disturbing topic for the ladies as well as men, another late night conversation (instead of getting on with my work) i was having with one of my freinds on skype (woo hoo thank God for skype lol) and we were talking about Tiger Woods, and all the guys that we know personally that have cheated on their partners so theses are my questions.....
Why do guys cheat?
Do all of them cheat?
Is it in their blood, like are they destined to commit such atrocities?

First of all to be fair both gender cheats on each other, but in the society that we are in if a man cheats its more of a crime than if a female does, also to be fair it could have happened in a moment of weakness, or they are unhappy in their current relationship and either want out and have decided to take the easy way out, or are having a hard time communicating about the problem with their spouse.

So i asked two people  what they thought about this and this what they had to say....
I am honestly thinkin it is in their blood, I do not believe anything half of them say. From personal experience they seem to be easily swayed. Married or not.

Fr this reason my relationship is becoming very difficult, I have allready found out small things that he has done. He seemed like the most honest man I had met...

I am thinking of just staying single so I do not get hurt.

Not all guys are cheaters in fact there are many good guys in this world who were raised well, but it is up to YOU to be more selective and intuitive about who you date. Ask lots of questions. Don't trust so easily and so quickly. Learn to be skeptical. Really examine a person and what he says, how he talks about life, how he talks about women. I mean just be more skeptical and ALOT more selective when you are choosing guys. And above all, you do the choosing, don't just let them choose you. And be picky.....

Isit beccause men feel unapreciaitve, disrespected, cant put up with the nagging?? what exactly isit?

ladies n guys say your thoughts on this issue please......

Tuesday, 8 December 2009

Oh No He Didnt....

I really am in the mood for writing i could go on and on but i think ill end at this post, some imature being is writing rubbish in my status saying lol 'im 16 i fancy your man and he fancies me bk' ...... anyhoo dat made me laugh, whoever that is you get ultimate air...

OMG so Tiger Woods is sooo shocking me right now, im so much in shock about his adultreous ways, and i really liked him as well arghh theres me thinking its only one woman...then i hear its seven whole woman, consisting of porn stars, waitresses and bar atenders

Trust me i am upset, he looked so gentle and like someone who would never so such a thing, men are evil they all cheat, just have to pray to God for guidance, i feel so sorry for his wife right now...ooo Gard were are all the real men in this world, even Christians are flopping now a days, its the wives i feel really sorry for

pure randomness

I saw this cute picture n thingy on the internet.....

have you ever waited by your computer
for his screen name to pop up?

have you ever sat by your mobile phone
waiting for his call?

have you ever woke up early
just to wear your makeup the way he likes it?

have you ever tried on 100 different outfits
looking for something that would catch his eye?

have you ever turned on the radio
just to find every song reminds you of him?

Do you ever dress up and do your hair asking yourself if you think he would like it?

Do you ever re read those messages or texts that where saved years ago?

 I know  im not the only one......

Corinne Bailey Rae

Corinne Bailey Rae performing at the Hiro Ballroom in NYC
Im so happy for Corinne Bailey-Rae,
Shes coming back after her tragic loss, i love her music and im glad shes coming back..her hair has grown alot in that process ( ino thats besides the point but its a lil observation lol) , I trust her album to be banging, ive heard and witnessed that Some of the greatest music comes by a musicians lost or saddness, it becomes deep and full of emotion and passion.....

Really looking forward to her album dropping, bless her, shes so pretty, check out her album cover below and a video of her performing on 'Later Live'.

Guess whoes back!!!!!

Yeah Yeah i said ill be gone till i finish my essays, but i really cant be bothered to do it with them right now...plus i missed writing.

I had an extraodinary week rather intresting full of drama fun anger lol, it was quite eventfull.
So guys i finally finally finally plucked up the courage to get some red lipstick, i was in Superdrugs for ages trying different shades of red on and i found the one YaY me!!!!!

It was one my girls 21st birthday so we wenr down to CoKo Bar in London to celebrate, it was a fun chilled out zone good vibe,good, music...great nyt
check out the pictures below oh yh and comment on the lippy lol :)

Me and the Birthday Girl.......

MME with my lippy!!

Some of the Ladies!!

Please dont ask why im screwing, lol coz I myself i have no idea!!

Friday, 4 December 2009