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Thursday, 25 February 2010

Precious the Movie

So last night i finally watched Precious the movie (fully), all my excitemnt and anticipation since November has finally come to an end.... umm i think i expected  more from the movie, it wasnt all that, i think i raised the bar for it too high and I was a bit dissapointed, it did baffle me at times but I think dat was the aim of the producer/director because it was stylishly confusing, but damn Gabby really really tried, she defnetly deserves an Oscar for best newcomer or somehing, I know something silly myt happen like the award going to Monique especially since shes won the BAFTA awards already, the REAL Actress is Gabby and she should be given these accolades instead ……..

Some of my party pictures xxx

OOoooooo so ive been informed that the link to see me birthday pics is not working, so becaue i love yall im gonna upload a couple up for you to feast your eyes on xxxx

Wednesday, 24 February 2010

Rhi Rhi has done us some Justice

This song has to be by far her best single, it is Hott!! not to sure of the video, but the song nah 10 out of 10, i love it, usually subliminal messages piss me off like we all know shes talking about 'SEX' but i really love this song, i dunno if its the techno beat or what it is, she did well coz in my eyes she was getting rubbish but shes done herself justice,Regardless of the negative context - this video (on youtube) has over 4.5 million hits in less than two weeks. really catchy summer jam


HELLLO HELLO HELLO IM BACKK (i really need to stop saying im back lool) but wow it has been a really hectic 2 weeks omygosh its finally over all my party preps :( now there's nothing to look forward to now,mmmm.

It was an amazing time, experience everything i had tooo much fun oh my days, it was incredible.... i would put the pictures here but that is soo long for me to do right about now, but i will share a link of an album or 2 hopefully it works, if not let me know and im gonna have to b forced to upload the pics lol

hugs n kisses xoxo



Tuesday, 16 February 2010

Will Cheryl finally give Ashley the red card?

FOOTIE ace Ashley Cole cheated on wife Cheryl with a blonde after sending her sex texts.

The secretary told how Cole, 29, sneaked her into Chelsea's team hotel before Premier League matches. – www.thesun.co.uk

Ok I so wasn’t going to write about the whole Ashley Cole cheating scandal, but it’s really bloody annoying me now, it’s true when they say A leopard never changes its spots, it totally disgusts me when I hear this kind of rubbish, She vowed to fight for her love, but it seems Cheryl Cole may well be facing a losing battle.

There is something I cannot understand - never! How such amazingly beautiful glowing from within creature can marry such an arsehole! If this is love, life is really not fair… I heard someone saying ‘boys will be boys’ What a load of bollocks, So does that mean ANY boy in the world is entitled to carry on this way all because they are "boys"?????........... She should dump his ass; she can do ten times better than that loser.....What a moron. She is Cheryl Cole, and he goes and sleeps with some kiss-and-tell, give me 5 minutes of fame slag?


He is stupid to even communicate with other women, knowing how much the British press have been trying to break up their relationship for a long while. Even he went clubbing they were suggesting that he was cheating. When will famous people learn, the side chicks are just after the money and fame.

Monday, 15 February 2010

Hello you !!

Hey everybody...wow what a weekend it was pretty eventful
thanks to everyone that wished me  a Happy Birthday... i enjoyed it mwah xx
Friday was a good day ( my birthday) went out to dinner with my girls
Saturday went shopping with 'The Mister' ......
Sunday Valentines day, i liked this year cause it was spent with people I love , we all went out for dinner it was super fun... I don't think Valentines day is or has to be restricted to lovers only, you can share 'Love' with anybody xxx

I have a million and 1 things to do this week, im tired already and i haven't even started :(

no biggie post today as im so tired, ive had like 5 hours sleep in the space of 3 days and ive got to get this assignment done.....during the cause of the week i have some interesting topics to discuss, stay tuned and below are some pictures of my birthday on Friday ( i say this with all humility lol but i totally love my dress)

luv yall xxxxx




Thursday, 11 February 2010

RIP Alexander McQueen

The iconic British Fashion designer Alexander McQueen has committed suicide.
Oh, what a waste, a genuine talent, the fashion world has lost an inspiring man.. I hope he finds the peace he sought.  My wishes go to his family and friends. RIP Mr MQueen. For those that dont know him he was one of the fashion world’s biggest designers, belonging to the same circles as top models Naomi Campbell and Kate Moss.

Wednesday, 10 February 2010

Alicia n Beyonce in African Wax Print A.K.A Ankara

Beyonce and Alicia Keys collaborated in Rio De Janiero, Brazil to shot their new video "Put In The Love Song". They are filmed near the Christ the Redemeer Statue and in a nearby favela.

First and foremost I think the song is freaking elementary, I expected much mored from the both of them put together..c’mon now A.Keys and Bey on one song and this is the best you could come up with??? My personal opinion but I do have high hopes for the video…it looks good

Anyways that aside Both ladies look fab. Love both Bey and Alicia.
Ooo whats that I se them wearing?? that’s straight up West African material (Ankara is what we call it) make it into jumpsuit, dresses, anything…! You can get  those for like 5-20 pounds for 6 yards and you can get someone to make these same pieces for way cheaper! I thought Solange Knowles ( Beyonces sis) was the stylist for the video since she loves these African wears.

Sorry to burst your excited bubbles but I doubt Bey and A.Keys  ordered their materials from Lagos or Accra lol its the “carnival” style ensembles with obvious african print look to be from  Boxing kitten.com ( http://www.boxingkitten.com/ )

Interesting that they’ve used West African fabric and added a twist with the cut, but then again historically there is a strong African (Nigerian) presence in Brazil and influence on culture so it’s not too far a stretch. I guess it kinda makes sense that they wear these attires since Africa's history is kind of entwined with Brazil.

Can just see that look getting swagger jacked come summer.
Check out the pictures below ad the new single if you haven’t heard it xxx

Valentines day palaver......

Millions of people across the country will be buying flowers, chocolates and champagne in time for Valentine's Day this week.

Restaurants will be full as couples  get romantic over candlelight while the unhappily single people mutter bitterly over a TV dinner. What's it all for?
Is it a meaningless avenue to sell greetings cards or a much-needed reminder to focus on the people who matter to us most?

Alot of statuses on FB (especially from girls) are really bitter, do they genuinely feel this way towards Valentines Day or are they just depressed and upset because they have noone to share the day with lol?????

Question: Is it romantic to give your partner a gift and some thoughtful words or is the gesture devalued by the fact that everyone else is doing it too?

By the way, you don’t have to have a lover to celebrate valentines day. It’s enough that you have people you love in your life. You don’t have to be IN love so that you can celebrate valentines. YOu just have to have love.

Sunday, 7 February 2010

45 Things Girls Want But Don't Ask For

found this thing on fb that i found totally funny, some things are cute others are cringe lol but c'mon girls you cant be turning your guy into some sort of tool, so theres a book on how to act towards your girl now??...i mean its cute dont get me wrong but people need to grow up, its fake its not natural, Guys dont feel pressured to do this stuff, we will love you despite it lool and for my ladies you dont need all of this, its okay if he doesnt put all of his attention on you or do the 45 things...if its meant to be it will find its way, let nature take its cause <3
...... im just saying....  

anyhow read below tell me your thoughts

45 Things Girls Want But Don't Ask For

1. Touch her waist.

2. Actually talk to her.

3. Share secrets with her.

4. Give her your jacket.

5. Kiss her slowly.


6. Hug her.

7. Hold her.

8. Laugh with her.

9. Invite her somewhere.

10. Hangout with her and your friends together.


11. Smile with her.

12. Take pictures with her.

13. Pull her onto your lap.

14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.

15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.


16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.

17. Kiss her unexpectedly.

18. Hug her from behind around the waist.

19. Tell her she's beautiful.

20. Tell her the way you feel about her.


21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.

22. Tell her she's your everything - only if you mean it.

23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her

24. Make her feel loved.

25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!


26-don't lie to her.

27-DON'T cheat on her.

28-take her ANYWHERE she wants

29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.

30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.


31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.

32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.

33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).

34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.

35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.


36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.

37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.

38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.

39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.

40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible


41. Call or text her at night to wish her SWEET DREAMS

42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.

43. Take her for LONG walks at night.

44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her.

45.sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.


46. When you hug her from behind, or are standing behind her with your hands on her waist, pull her in even closer by putting your fingers through her belt loops

47. Move her hair out of her face when you're talking to her

48. Hug her every time you see her. Hold her close to you

49. Don't let her walk away from you, chase after her

50. Kiss her in the pouring rain..not just a quick kiss..really mean it.

51. Unzip your jacket and hug her, cuddling with her under your jacket

52. Tell her you love her at a random time....it lets her know you are always thinking of her

53. Kiss her on the forehead. It says more than just passion and lust, it shows respect and adoration.

54. Introduce her to your friends, and tell them that she's yours. Kiss her in front of them.

55.Touch her face or neck when kissing her ♥

56. If she comes to you crying, hug her tightly and say "Who's ass am i kicking babe?"

57. Look into her eyes while you tell her shes beautiful and it will mean more to her than any conversation

58. Never give up on her

59. Stay awake all night talking to her if she needs someone, she'll return the favor if you were ever in need.

60. When she tries to push you away, hold her closer and tell her that you're not going to leave

61. Don't act jealous but make sure she knows that you are protective of her.

62. Let her know she could have you forever if she wanted to (only if you mean it)

63. Push her on a swingset. Kiss her at night on the playground in a public park

64. Tell her she is worth dying for (only if you mean it)

65. walk up to her if you see her coming and give her a hug and slowly kiss her ♥

66. When you suggest going somewhere or doing something, give them a straight yes or no; none of the 'up to you' or 'it doesn't matter to me' stuff

67. push her hair back, and whisper in her ear that you love her. (only if you mean it)

68. tell her she looks beautiful not sexy. :)

69. surprise her with little things like take her to a place where you can both just lay under the stars and laugh with each other and feel how much you two connect.

70. Offer to treat her and pay for things, but don't do it every single time, although we love it, we don't want to feel completely dependent on you

71. Be there for her and help to take care of her when shes sick

72. NEVER bring up ex Gf, even the littlest bits, Unless she brings it up. Then dont say much

73. take her to the place were you first met and say " this is were the best thing in my life happened " (only if you mean it)

74. take her hand in yours while watching a movie and kiss it once, out of the blue. don't let go afterwards

75. Remind her how you feel when you're with her, when you look at her, when you kiss her...

76. Make sure she knows how you see her...both on the outside and on the inside. Telling her these things will make her feel less insecure, less of a burden, and more thought of and loved.

77. we absolutely LOVE when you touch our hair. push it away from our face, put your hands through it just while watching a movie, play with it while just hanging out, and put your hand through her hair during a big hug.

Who is this 'Nikki Minaj'??

So ive heard  the name 'Nikki Minaj' flying from north east south and west....and i really wanted to know what the deal was about this chic, a lot of people want to know what all the hype is about Nikki Minaj including myself  .... so i googled her and the first thing that came to my mind was 'pornstar' with the description 'quickly advancing newcomer, Young Money signee Nicki Minajnext to it I then youtubed her .....She doesn’t have an album out yet and only is featured on some tracks, yet she’s in high demand.
everytime i see something about her, she’s doing a song with a different artist, she is very dollyish Barbie likeish,   just playing dress up and riding the 15 mins of fame train.
Is this supposed to be a 2010 version of Lil’ Kim....Nikki Minaj is not a rapper i know nothing whatsoever about rap lol but i really don't like her flows ( if that's what its called???, but you get what i mean) 

Apparently Nikki is on everybody tracks because Lil Wayne is paying labels to do it. It’s called promotion. But my question is what is all the hype about her?? why is she on everyone's lips, am i missing something here?? because i don't think she is that good to be honest.... please help me out here  She’s average, her appearance is sub zero...her silly facial expressions when rapping is a cause for concern lol   if you support her either you still wearing coloured weave, big  plastic gold earrings,  or simply your ghetto as hell.

But seriously guys??? what's the deal with her?? i need to know


Wednesday, 3 February 2010

Madonna and Jesus Luz have gone their separate ways. Hallelujah!

Madonna & Jesus Luz: Gold-en Couple

So I was reading the newspaper this morning  and i found out that Madonna and Jesus Luz split up loooool
I don't know why anyone is surprised, their relationship was just a major joke 28 flippin years difference in age, allow that, In just 9 years Madonna would be getting her pension and free bus pass!  Now if that's not a wakeup call I don't know what is...I still can't believe her vanity, thinking that the age gap didn't matter! It's like child abuse the gap is so big!

apparently the the 23-year-old Brazilian model ended the relationship with the 51-year-old star because of the 28-year age difference and their busy work schedules and Jesus was the one who initiated the split. phahaha
I know im all about ' age is only a number' but wow this is stupidity mate, why would you go out with someone, sleep with some or even kiss someone you can give birth to.... major cringe i feel sick as i type.....How it even lasted a year seems like a miracle to a lot of people. They are in such different places in their lives. 
Good riddance........

Tuesday, 2 February 2010

lack wig....yuck!!!!

Even Celebrities get it wrong SMH what is goin on with Kellys lace wig, what the hell???When are these disasterous lacefronts going to correct?? Everywhere I go must I see someone  looking like a sumo wrestler by the hairline, eurgh...puts me off the more......I women are meant to wear wigs and weaves that look natural on them. I thought that would be the point, especially since you have all that money. And why does the lace have to be like in the middle of her forehead. We all know her hairline doesn’t start there.

I love you kelly, you never get it wrong but c'mon...didnt you check the mirror before you left your house, and yes it is that bad im not exagerating, it looks FAKE!!!

on the plus side i think Kelly was wearing one of the prettiest dresses of the night but her hair wasn’t as good. Still love her she’s still stunning

Kelly Rowland & Brandy

Kelly Rowland at Universal Motown's cocktail party

I realise im late but  this is to congratulate BeyoncĂ©, who picked up six wins, a record for a female artist, at the 52nd Annual GRAMMY Awards, including Song Of The Year, Best Female Pop Vocal Performance, Best Female R&B Vocal Performance, Best Traditional R&B Vocal Performance, Best R&B Song, and Best Contemporary R&B Album.