For My Ladies

Ladies you are your partners helper!!! wow – that’s a hard statement to swallow for a woman of our generation! 





On Sunday after church i was talking to one of the ministers, she was rushing home to make dinner for her husband and i was like' if he is that hungry he will cook for himself since he is at home and he knows where u are'. I then got a lecture lol which i will break down to you.

when God created Eve, she was created to be a “helper suitable for him (Adam).” That is the wife’s purpose. It is quite plain in black and white. When you act as a “helper suitable for him , you are glorifying God.

In this generation it is  hard for women to sit back and simply help their partners – we are tempted to lead them, boss them, criticize them, expect them to take care of themselves and us, be tidy, and a helper to us. But in actuality – they are not our helpers – we are their helpers! God desires that they be servant leaders and the head of the house but whether they are actually doing that should make no difference as to our attitude of being their helper- hmmm deep!!!

So we have three things to consider:

1: Know your partner. 

Know his likes and dislikes and help him in the areas that he has asked for help. Pay attention to areas where you see he needs help.

2: Do not compare your relationship to your friends, sisters or even your pastors! 

Your partner is unique and you are unique; therefore, you have a unique relationship You must seek to please your partner and no one else.

3: Do not wait for your partner to “deserve” to be helped. 

We should do what is right no matter what others are doing around us . This is very hard lol especially when they have wronged us.

Our strength to be his helper must come from our walk with God. When we stop fighting what God has created us to be – we will find peace and blessing even in the midst of a difficult relationship. 

It is a hard pill to swallow at first because of pride but when you realize how natural it is, it’s a beautiful thing! When you realize this then everything starts falling into place, after all that was said and done i said to her this is all beautiful and makes sense but i cannot be a slave neither a dunce, best believe i got a spanking lol xx

Lindsay Lohan Rant!!

Hello Family
hope all is well and good, so on my train  journey to work this morning i was reading in the newspaper how Lindsay Lohan  had been released from prision early.





The star served 13 days of a 90-day sentence and taken straight to a local rehab center — where she is expected to spend the next 90 days. It had been expected that the Mean Girls actress would be released from jail early due to overcrowding in the California prison system and the State’s credit system for good behaviour.


She DIDN'T behave well in jail! From all accounts, it sounds like she was as obnoxious as she could possibly be. It's not like she could actually do anything BAD, since she was locked up in a cell for most of the day, but still that is such a pathetic excuse




Ok stuff like this piss me ryt off, you never hear of non celebrities serving only 13 days out of their sentence, this is pathetic  celebrities are humans just like me and you, that's the more reason why they should be disciplined the more because they are potential role models/icons/idols to younger kids.


She should have spent all 90 days in jail. If she wasn't (arguably) a celebrity she would have. If I was one of those other inmates that has to serve my full term while people like Lindsay, Khloe Kardasian, and Michelle Rodriguez walk after a short period of time I would sue the LA County jail and the sherrif for discrimination.

It then went on to say '"Lindsay is very upset that the judge ordered her to go straight to rehab…[Lindsay] feels that she deserved to spend a day with her family after she behaved well in jail.'


"feels she deserved to spend a day with her family"…

She got special treatment, and spent 2 -ish weeks of her 90 day sentence. When a person breaks the law, is found guilty of the crimes, and goes to jail that person isn't owed anything, by anyone - other than their basic human rights ( i.e. access to food, water, a place to sleep). It's not a "right" to see your family, it's a privilege.
Because of …."how well she behaved in jail" ?
Didn't she aggravate the others (inmates and staff) by screaming and crying the whole time?



If this was to happen to one of us normal joes we would still be in jail. Money talks once again. This is not news worthy. I dont like to see a certain kind of person get special treatment we are all the same. Send her back to jail.......