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Tuesday 8 March 2011

If we cant be lovers we cant be friends??




We've all been there. Whether we are the dumpee or the dumper, we have all experienced the end of a relationship. The uncomfortable "It's not you it's me" conversation. The tears and pleas to stay together. It often times is quite messy. How do you handle the aftermath of a break up? Does it depend on how messy the break up is?

For some, it doesn't matter how amicable the break up is, after they are done, they are done.


I asked one of my girls this question and she had this to say.... ' I don't want any phone calls or emails or any of that. Forget you even know my name when we break up. Especially if you broke up with me. I don't want to hear about your new woman and how great she is and how you are planning on marrying her. Yeah, that doesn't hurt much.'

If I was the dumpee I still don't want to be friends with the guy because inevitably he will always think he can inch his way back in. Always. Uuuhhh, no. I don't want to be your friend.

So, what's your take on ending a relationship? Can you be friends or no? do you agree with my girl?

4 comments:

Unknown said...

in most cases NO, but where the relationship is more like friends turn partners, then saying no to friendship wld b difficult i guess

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