Man Bags

I went out this evening to Frankie& Benny's for a friends birthday dinner, and i couldn't help but notice the amount of guys that carry 'man bags'. As much as these are just bags they are a very fashion forward, and adds an edge to a guys dressing lol,  this look is not for the faint hearted.
They are both very functional and stylish, ive heard allot of people say 'man bags' are for gay men lol, y'all are jealous cause you aint got the swag to pull it off, i absolutely j'adore man bags!!

Mini Rant on Cristina

Christina Aguleria has done a bad job off making a comeback, i feel ashamed for her, shes not the naughty school girl she used to be, shes an adult now a mother, so she needs to cut us some slack, , and here we have it again another example of where Celebrities think sex sells.


It seems as if She's grasping for straws trying to find an identity. It's a shame… she has such a great voice but rubbish ass songs!!! 
The whole video is screaming Gaga inspired, First off hate the song. Hate the video. I felt like I was watching soft core porn. She really needs to find her own style. She had that before, but I guess she thinks being more like GaGa will help her sell more records. It won't. This is absolutely pathetic. I'm really disappointed because someone with such a beautiful voice can do so much better.


Honestly, Christina, hang up your jacket and take care of your child. She's a mother and is hooking up with chicks? Really, you were never a lesbian or bi-sexual–STOP JUMPING ON THE BANDWAGON. 2) THIS LOOKS LIKE DESPERATE SOFT PORN 3)YOUR VOICE IS AMAZING AND THIS IS THE WRONG TYPE OF SONG FOR YOU TO SING 4) Seriously? Pathetic.

Woo dats my mini rant over and done with, now you can watch the video and tell me what you feel 

The Game

I really have nothing to say about this video, other than EPIC FAIL!!!
Please watch and give me your comments

Toni B wassup???

In all honesty i think Toni Braxton is going through a mid life crisis, the things she has  been wearing and doing recently , like maybe she feels the need to catch up with Bey and Rhi and all the other young ones, but really its not working hunny, she is way to old to be wearing spandex and stuff like that especially when the camel toe is out on display, shes obviously attention whoring. i mean you can look really hot when your old but do it appropriately , shes to old for this and needs an intervention.
she is beautiful and very talented but the outfits just downgrades her class

Ive noticed something

Jay Z and Beyonce are notorious for keeping their private life just that. Rarely do they speak about each other in interviews, and they skill-fully avoid public displays of affection. Bey and her husband Jay-Z take their privacy very seriously, possibly a bit too seriously sometimes.

They couple are rarely seen in romantic poses or even communicating their affection for each other. I mean its OK to be be private and reserved im kinda like that, but you know its also OK to express your love for your spouse, i guess they are just trying protect themselves from the Paps...but what is there to protect?? the whole world already know they married.

Now weather this is good or not i don't know, im just stating what i have observed... sure there are couple cute pics of them displaying PDA once in a while

Ciaras back and im not feeling it

Afternoon Blogville so ive just seen Ciaras video ft Ludacris called 'Ride' very very interesting, no doubt  my girl can move her body, its like there's no bones in her at all.

I just have a problem with why most celebrity's find the need to sell sex?, why does everything have to be so sexual?? , like if you ask me i would classy the video as close to 'porn' all that gyrating like a stripper, sure your flexible and stuff but boi...that was allot for me to handle.

Ive read alot of comments and reviews on the video and 98% of the public loved it????? , the beats kinda hard, the video is boring but i guess that was the whole idea so we could focus on her sexual explicit moves

Family vs Partner

So ive just had a really bad experience of Family v Partner and im like woah  i thought it only happend in Nollywood movies, but i guess anything can happen in this life...so who is more important  Partner or Family??


No matter what happens, family will be there for you. Although putting your family ahead doesn't literally mean that you cancel time with your guy/girl. Family comes first because those relationships, face it, not many are meant to last. And who will you run back to when he/she ditches you? Your family, right 


Women/ Men  may come and go, in and out of your life, but your family will be there long after they are gone.This is a tough situation. I think it also depends on how long you've been together. Technically, your spouse is supposed to come first ( take note i sed spouse, so this should apply for people who are married)
. You are each other's number one person in life and do almost everything together with them. But if you just started dating (i.e. not even engaged, or less than 2 years together if you don't believe in marriage), then it's just like any other friend and your family comes first.

The best solution is to find balance. You are going to be spending a lot of time with your partner, but your family is always there for you (even if you break up with your significant other) so you should get together and help each other when you need help.