Saturday, 10 April 2010
'All relationships are controlled by the person who cares less'
Ok so this morning i stumbled across this quote 'All relationships are controlled by the person who cares less'
and it struck me that its really true, this really happens that is true, however, the person who loves deepest has the better love experience. The old saying, "It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." had it right.
No one wants to have their heart broken, and it's prudent to go slow, so you can judge the level of your loved ones commitment, however, loving is part of life. If a person holds back and doesn't truly allow themselves to "put their heart into it" they will never fully experience the sheer JOY of loving another person. I have been loved and I have loved. Being loved is a sweet and precious thing, but loving brings me true JOY! I pity those who have never allowed themselves that experience.
That being said, I would caution the "one who cares the most" to keep their self esteem intact, making sure that their loved one is not using them instead of loving them. After all, a person can stand not being the "star" of the show as long as they are awarded a "Best Supporting" Oscar.