Someone just messaged me in my honesty box,(HONESTY BOX hmmm watch out for the post on that..coming soon) telling me to write a post on how i feel a man should treat his lady....im guessing it was a guy judging from the way he was speaking, and since im awake i might as well post it now.... p.s i am no love doctor, just a fellow female who is passionate about realionships and using my expectations also making someone happy by doing what was requested.... ill do it in bullet points :)
- RESPECT HER!!
- Compliment her. It will mean a lot to her. Yet be truthful
- Be yourself. Don't put on a fake show of yourself
- Don't use her!!! It'll only lead to trouble in the end.
- When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention. Make sure you listen to her and talk to her. Just sitting beside her doesn't count as time together.
- Gifts don't need reasons to be given. Give your girlfriend gifts on normal days
- Girls are not things, and don't like to be treated like objects. Avoid being too possessive of them
- Be as confident as you can - women love confident men. However, don't take it too far - if too confident, women will find you arrogant and egoistic
- Learn to spend time with her, call the shots ask her out to the movies dinner i dunno somewhere nice, if she always has to ask if you want to go out trust me she will soon lose intrest.
- Don't overdo it
- Be a Good Man. Honestly will go a long way with a female
- Treat a women Well and she will totally forget that you are not a millionaire lool
- Dont be a wuss tell her you love her (please only say it if you really do lol)
- Observe her attitude if you notice she's having mood swings randomly....well its probably the time of the month :)
HOWEVER ITS QUITE UNFORTUNATE THAT GUYS CANNOT POSSES ALL THESE QUALITIES....NOT EVEN CHUCK BASS *SIGH* .... HOPE IVE ENLIGHTEND YOU A BIT ANONYMOUS :)