Monday, 2 November 2009
Should Woman Pay for dates at all??
Traditionally society suggests that the man not only initiate a date, but pays for it as well. But is it really fair for a man to pay all the time, if both of you are profiting from the date?
So a really intresting topic, I saw someones status last night sayin' 95% of the time a guy should pay for the date' hmm so I waited for people to comment and all the girls where in agreement and all the guyz disagreed!!!
Is this true, or are the guys who disagree just cheap and stoosh??. I've read a couple of posts and artcles on this issue and the majority said, whoever asked for the date should be the one to pay, whilst some said ladies should never pay its the guys duty while it is the duty of the woman to love lool.
I agree that whoever calls the shots should pay but wen one party always askes to go out then it may become a problem.
It is a bit of a silly debate actually but I'm really intrigued with peoples responce to this topic.
The noble thing for the asker to do is at least look after the bill.
Obviously on the first date I belive the guy should pay, but when your getting deep into a relationship the issue of payin shud be a very trival thing, A person's age and the nature of the relationship might also possibly influence the thoughts about who pays.
It is very tradional and old fashion ' men must pay for dates' , 'men should open doors' etc... But we are in the 21st century these things seize to exist now. Back in the day woman didnt have jobs they were house wives so it was acceptable for a man to pay for her, but now a days most woman earn more than men.
What do you all think bout this??