religion...Christianity

James 1:26-27  if anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless. Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.

This verse is quite explanitatory, Christianity these days seems to be all about music and clothing lines, recycling the same christians and artists at the same concerts and shows, what ever happend to doing what the scriptures said in Jamed 1:27 ...looking after the poor, the orphaned, the widowed..... christinaity is more than  this.

I'm afraid, when most people think of religion, they do not think of God the Father. They do not think first of Him and the spiritual blessings He provides in Christ. They think of church stuff (people, groups, organizations, buildings and movements). We are strongly influenced by the religious culture of our time - which is marked by denominations, churches, organizations, human tradition and ritual. It will be to our eternal advantage to identify religion first with God. Right religion is man's response to Him. When man's response is in keeping with His instructions and is expressive of
faith in His Son - then you have "pure and undefiled religion." Anything else is vain.

We as christians need to fix up!!

wow a couple of hour left till the new year, doesnt it annoy you when people say 'New year, New me' like please get over your self you said that last year and the year before and the year before that....like wotevaa....
so ive signed unto fb as usually lol and  at least 10 people have posted this to me on chat

 ' right girls let's have some fun. write the color of the bra you're wearing right now as your status on fb and dont tell the boys. they will be wondering what all the girls are doing with colors as their status. forward this to all the girls online\'..... 


And i go to my homepage and what do i see, diffrent colours on girls status.....welll call me old fashioned or stiff necked but this is what i feel about it.........
1, Its not funny
2. its not actually fun
3.Its not amusing
4.Do you really think guys dont know what your talking about


Several guys have asked me, wassup with female colour status and i pasted them the msg...and in common what they have said  is ' hw would a guy respect u when u aint got no class, some girls need to rethink' SNM!!!!!!


Woah hoahhhh bring on the hate mail :)

is there anythin wrong with guys wearin Ugg boots ....

I went out today and i saw some guy wearing Uggs and coincidentally its someone's status ryt now on fb  and you know what he made it look perfectly normal to wear lol, I think it totally depends on the guy. This isnt my first time seeing guys wearing Ugg boots  I've seen some cool guys wearing them and they look good but also I've seen some less attractive guys who look a bit stupid!


I cant understand the fuss over guys who wear ugg boots? theyre only shoes- and look great on them, as they do girls.BDW Uggs are unisex so its kool :)

I love seeing guys wearing Uggs , its daring and diffrent especially the black or dark brown ones they look so good on them. topman from what ive seen do a good selection ... the best look ive seen is when u see a guy in a pair of dark brown/black uggs, dark blue jeans and a nice collard cardy or something like that.. such a lovely look.






       

mini rant!!!!

Ok so im guessing everybody has heard about the latest failed terrorist attack carried out by the 'Nigerian guy', ok so i have a major issue right now... like everyone is going crazy simply because his Nigerian, at first i was like ahh nahh disgrace bla bla bla..but like have we all forgotton that he is actually a stern hard core muslim who has links with the al-queda crew, so ........ also why are people and the media not mentioning that the man is also a British citizen?. that this guy was traveling with a British pasport?. Or does it just sound better for the media to label him a Nigerian national instead of a British citizen. 


Obviously like what he did is soo not cool, so wrong so so wrong, people should focus on the incident and not his nationality, his so dumb that he only injured himself and on top of that it failed....wasteman


i bet tiger woods is jumping up and down happy as hell that we aint talking about him, lol sorry it had to be said woooohooooooo :) below is the picture of what the mugg looks like

Helloooooooooooooooooooooo

Ahh lovely blogsville, hope you had a lovely Christmas, i know i did. This year i didnt give any presents nor recieve any and to be honest it felt good, i was thinking earlier today, imagine if you had a massive birthday party and people you invited came even pple you didnt invite also came, and then the whole focus shifts from you and is now on other people that you invited, instead of briniging gifts for you they bring for each other and nobody actually acknowledges you.... sad aye?? thats how the Saviour feels when we forget he is the reason for the season and when we get carried away with turkys and presents and the whole shebang :(

Anyways so theres a puppy in my house, which im really trying to get used to lol, my parents (typical Nigerians) want it out of the house, like they dont understand what a Nigerian boy is doing with a puppy lol, its cute doe....

So im back now, finally got that weave of my head, but now i have to watch what i eat coz the fringe has gone- damn it lol!!

Boxing day sales this year erm.... MEGA WACK!!!!!!!!

Food Porn

Kim Kardashian is so overrated. Lol, how stupid is this, a fabulous job of simulating sex with a chicken salad. Bravo. Especially in this day and age when young girls are looking for role models, Kim Kardashian makes it very clear that you need no talent, no message, no pride to make a career out of nothing…

Kim is a very pretty girl but she has this little girl sense of humor and I am sure that she thought this is so cute…but its retarded. this is a bit much………no matter how hard one tries…………..salad will never be sexy, Who the hell eats a salad in the bath tub??? Gross advert and honestly it wouldnt appeal to me either. No one wants to see food spilling out of someone's mouth GROSS!

LOL this is so weird…make her stop please…. AND WHY does she need to take a bath?! Awkward…….

So this is somesones status on fb which I really agree with, its from a guy bdw:

Beyonce, makes out like she's some black queen, perfect role model, miss independent, girl- power bull. But all her videos now she has her ass and tits out. What happen to classy women? The days when a girl was a girl not doing short back and sides or selling themselves cheap. We have to pick wives outta this bunch, may God help us lol. Classy women stand up.

 

well to be honest im no hater and miss b does her thing but to consider her a role model no!!!! sometimes when i see her in videos i wonder what she is really like in person she seems so humble on interviews but if you need to make up an alter-ego im inclined to think that that is the real you and the interviews are all an act! in her videos she’s basically teaching the kids how to be burlesque dancers and definitely how to work the pole. no good!!! entertainer is all that she is and beauty comes from within and shines out not through provocative ness. you are beautiful with your clothes on and young ladies look to your parents and POSITIVE people as role models, entertainers puts up facades!!!!

Beyonce Knowles could not help feel flattered after being told by the First Lady Michelle Obama that she was a role model for her daughters.

                  

Beyonce is a great entertainer, and business woman, but role model for little girls is a stretch. I would agree she is a great role model for other female entertainers and business women, because she has created an international brand,  in one breath she's singing "Halo", and "Flaws and All", and in the next she's poppin her crotch, and slow winding her behind half-dressed on the screen singing "Video Phone". I wonder if they'll let Sasha and Malia grind to the new "Video Phone" song she has where she's asking "Do u wanna see me naked?". That comment the First Lady made to her should have been kept on the DL because I am not impressed. I enjoy her because  I am mature enough to understand the 2 sides to her , but little girls and boys won't. So hopefully there are certain songs and images of Beyonce that are filtered for the little ladies!

Something i found on FB

Someone showed this to me on FB last night, found it quite humorous, but i also want to know if it was true? most of the things can relate to girls as well

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

8. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful.If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much some guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

25.When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

33. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

34. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

35. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

what the heck

Lol i dont think she was laughing about the murder, probably about his mugshot but not about the actually murder, and the worst thing is once you start laughing you cant stop, it happens alot to me ( p.s i know this is old)

Anchor Laughs at Murder - watch more funny videos

ITS SAD !!!!!!!

Its sad to see another celbrity go, how many celebrities have passed away this year, and what most of them have in common is ' cardiac arrest' wassup with that?
Didn't really see her face that much, but i guess she was loved by many, may her soul rest in perfect piece.....

LACE WIGGSS!!!!

Argghh so ive been looking thru alot of party albums on Facebook lately because im looking for an Ankra style to sew, and in all the albums that ive seen ( apart from shocking pictures of aunties i know jumping from party to party) are pictures of girls that have revolting and gross instaled lace wigs.....Recently i notice that there has been an epidemic of bad lace wigs. This turns people off of wearing them



like come on girls, lace wig is not for everyone, just because you see celebrities wearing it dont mean it look good on you, stick to your weave, and if you have to do lace wig please go to professionals that will install it properly for you and dont get excited because you see£60 lace wig if your gonna install lace wig do it properly and pay the full £200 , tighten up on your lacfront game!!!! Glue hanging out and all, its not cute.EVERYBODY CANT WEAR THEM & EVERY STYLIST CANT DO THEM!!!!

Congratulations Miss Paula O

You the old saying give honnour to whom honnour is due well thats  exacttly what im going to do to the winner of the 'Top Model of Colour Competion' that was recently held in Gambia

Miss Paula is defnetly a model to keep your eyes on, Born in Nigeria on the 21st of June 1990

Paula is the winner of the 'Top Model of Colour Competition' Gambia 09'

 she was discovered when she was a teenager. She has been featured in numerous magazines and catwalk shows like the alternative fashion week, afro hair and beauty show, ‘’So beautiful’’ fashion show & the untold London fashion week just to name a few.

have a look at some of her recent shoots below, theres something diffrent and ecentric  about her work theres no suprise to her winning the competion.....

She is defnetly someone you need to look out for.....
Show some love and join her FB page at  http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/pages/Miss-Paula-O/111249624534?ref=ts ( or just type in Miss Paula O )

CONGRATULATIONS AND KEEP IT UP !!!!!

BROKEN HEELS

Ok so after listening to Alexandar Burkes new single ‘Broken Heels’ I have to say Im soooo annoyed with the song choices she is getting. Regardless if they write their own songs or not, UK artists with soul voices are getting much better choices than her, whats all that about I thought ‘ Bad Boys’ was a one off never to repeat itself thing but then this….. Im confused. Her voice is beautiful and this is what they give her to sing? It sounds like something left of Britney’s album lool…..


I haven’t heard all the tracks on her new album but I do hope this isn’t a representative of what all her music will sound like. The song is annoying and sounds like something you would hear playing in Bluewater whilst doing your Christmas shopping. The video and concept...like we are tired of ' whatever a man can do a girl can do better' kinda thing..... shes got a very beautifull and amazing voice, lets just hope all her other songs arnt like this.

she won the X Factor last year she was doing so many interviews saying how she wants to go down the soul/ R&B route. A year later she comes out with BAD BOYS

If I remember correctly, soul/R&B were the type of songs on X Factor that allowed her to shine and we loved her for it. I really dislike this pop route she’s going down. It does absolutely nothing to show off her voice. I hope she switches this up for her next album and this won’t be representative of her future sound. Plus if she wants to make it BIG outside of the UK they’re going to want a lot more than this. Its much better than bad boys tho, but im trying to understand where she is going with all this.



It’s a thumbs dowm for me luv !!!

Would I Be Right In Concluding That Alll Men Cheat??

Very touchy and disturbing topic for the ladies as well as men, another late night conversation (instead of getting on with my work) i was having with one of my freinds on skype (woo hoo thank God for skype lol) and we were talking about Tiger Woods, and all the guys that we know personally that have cheated on their partners so theses are my questions.....
Why do guys cheat?
Do all of them cheat?
Is it in their blood, like are they destined to commit such atrocities?

First of all to be fair both gender cheats on each other, but in the society that we are in if a man cheats its more of a crime than if a female does, also to be fair it could have happened in a moment of weakness, or they are unhappy in their current relationship and either want out and have decided to take the easy way out, or are having a hard time communicating about the problem with their spouse.


So i asked two people  what they thought about this and this what they had to say....
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I am honestly thinkin it is in their blood, I do not believe anything half of them say. From personal experience they seem to be easily swayed. Married or not.


Fr this reason my relationship is becoming very difficult, I have allready found out small things that he has done. He seemed like the most honest man I had met...

I am thinking of just staying single so I do not get hurt.
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Not all guys are cheaters in fact there are many good guys in this world who were raised well, but it is up to YOU to be more selective and intuitive about who you date. Ask lots of questions. Don't trust so easily and so quickly. Learn to be skeptical. Really examine a person and what he says, how he talks about life, how he talks about women. I mean just be more skeptical and ALOT more selective when you are choosing guys. And above all, you do the choosing, don't just let them choose you. And be picky.....


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Isit beccause men feel unapreciaitve, disrespected, cant put up with the nagging?? what exactly isit?


ladies n guys say your thoughts on this issue please......

Oh No He Didnt....

I really am in the mood for writing i could go on and on but i think ill end at this post, some imature being is writing rubbish in my status saying lol 'im 16 i fancy your man and he fancies me bk' ...... anyhoo dat made me laugh, whoever that is you get ultimate air...


OMG so Tiger Woods is sooo shocking me right now, im so much in shock about his adultreous ways, and i really liked him as well arghh theres me thinking its only one woman...then i hear its seven whole woman, consisting of porn stars, waitresses and bar atenders

Trust me i am upset, he looked so gentle and like someone who would never so such a thing, men are evil they all cheat, just have to pray to God for guidance, i feel so sorry for his wife right now...ooo Gard were are all the real men in this world, even Christians are flopping now a days, its the wives i feel really sorry for

pure randomness

I saw this cute picture n thingy on the internet.....


have you ever waited by your computer
for his screen name to pop up?

have you ever sat by your mobile phone
waiting for his call?

have you ever woke up early
just to wear your makeup the way he likes it?

have you ever tried on 100 different outfits
looking for something that would catch his eye?

have you ever turned on the radio
just to find every song reminds you of him?


Do you ever dress up and do your hair asking yourself if you think he would like it?


Do you ever re read those messages or texts that where saved years ago?

 I know  im not the only one......

Corinne Bailey Rae

Im so happy for Corinne Bailey-Rae,
Shes coming back after her tragic loss, i love her music and im glad shes coming back..her hair has grown alot in that process ( ino thats besides the point but its a lil observation lol) , I trust her album to be banging, ive heard and witnessed that Some of the greatest music comes by a musicians lost or saddness, it becomes deep and full of emotion and passion.....


Really looking forward to her album dropping, bless her, shes so pretty, check out her album cover below and a video of her performing on 'Later Live'.

Guess whoes back!!!!!

Yeah Yeah i said ill be gone till i finish my essays, but i really cant be bothered to do it with them right now...plus i missed writing.

I had an extraodinary week rather intresting full of drama fun anger lol, it was quite eventfull.
So guys i finally finally finally plucked up the courage to get some red lipstick, i was in Superdrugs for ages trying different shades of red on and i found the one YaY me!!!!!

It was one my girls 21st birthday so we wenr down to CoKo Bar in London to celebrate, it was a fun chilled out zone good vibe,good, music...great nyt
check out the pictures below oh yh and comment on the lippy lol :)
xx

 
Me and the Birthday Girl.......




MME with my lippy!!



Some of the Ladies!!



Please dont ask why im screwing, lol coz I myself i have no idea!!

GONE FOR NOW BUT I SHALL RETURN LOL

HEY YALL HOPE UR COOLLIOOOO
IM SO UPSET I COULDN'T GO TO FAITH CHILDS ALBUM LAUNCH TODAY...LONG UNNECESSARY SITUATION...ARGHHH

SO ANYWAYS THIS IS JUST A SHORT POST TO SAY HII...AND I WONT BE BLOGGING FOR A WHILE, SINCE IVE JUST NOTICED I HAVE FOUR 2,000 WORD ESSAYS TO HAND IN BETWEEN NOW AND THE 18TH AS WELL AS LECTURES, EDITORIAL WORK AND PARTY PREPS .....**SIGHS** HELP ME JEHOVAH.....
LUV YALLL XXX

RiRi.......

Rhianna is actually a fashionista in her own right, if anyone begs to differ then i dont know where your looking, i just stumbled upon some recent pictures of her, she is actually hott, only her can pull anything off, i am aware that alot of londoners despise her taste in fashion...but i just love it, the way shes rocking that red lipstick gettin me envious lol, but wassup with the spikes she defnetly wasnt looking forward to any huggs lol

she's obviously got a very on-trend stylist who's doing her best to up Rihanna's fashion-ante but you've got to respect the girl for being so adventurous and actually managing to pull off these catwalk looks...well most of them

    
 Rhianna at he NYC album release party



Paris Fashion Week






American Music Awards 09

what a weekenddddd.....................

What an eventfully week, argh on Thursday i lost my bank card which im so frigging annoyed about and ive had to go throught a long process with the bank, but on a lighter note last night i was in the marvelous presence of God at the Festival of Life...it was awesome absolutly loved it, OMG if u wernt there you defnetly missed out on blessings ...i know ive recived mine.

Next stop is Faith Childs album launch

A SPECTACULAR CONCERT LANCHING THE HIGHLY ANTICIPATED ALBUM OF ONE OF THE MOST EXCITING ARTISTS OF OUR TIME...
FAITH CHILD!!

A JAM PACKED CONCERT OF FAITH CHILD PERFORMING THE NEW SONGS OFF HIS ALBUM SUPPORTED BY A FULL LIVE BAND, A DJ AND VERY SPECIAL GUESTS.


SPECIAL GUESTS INCLUDE:

• FOUR KORNERZ - The electric sibling quartet

• GUVNA B - The pioneering kingdom skanker

• JAKE ISAAC - Awesome praise and worship leader

• SHARON ROSE - The East London Songstress

• DJ 4REAL - will be on the wheels of steel!!!

HOST: SIMPLY ANDY

DATE: FRIDAY 4TH DECEMBER 2009
VENUE: ULU THE VENUE, 1 MALET STEET, LONDON, WC1E 7HY
TIME: 7PM
TICKETS: £10



Its going to be incrediblely amazing, make sure your there ...check out the FB Page for more info ;)
http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=136615528937

CRACK IS WHACK

Whitney Houston murders her own song ' wanna dance with somebody' on the finale of dancing with the stars.....ok im exaggerating, i mean she tried but its obviously not the old Whitney.... she use to be a good singer but the crack has ruined her voice beyond all repair not to mention her lungs as well. It sounds like she can hardly breathe. so sad… her voice is not the same. Cute dress, she needed to cut her bangs though, you couldn't even see her face. She needs to take breathing lessons because she could hardly catch her breath long enough to sing 2 words...... I really do love her but shes obviously not the same anymore due to all does drugs :( ... we all need to realize that the old voice is not coming back.... poor poor Whitney, just watch the video of her in 1987 and last night.....

I didnt get a chance to see the AMA (american music awards) but ive been catching up and watching some of the performances, I love J.Los song its so catchy, i mean of course she singing about something really pointless lol but yh her performance was good i loved it and she did well... as for that fall lol that can pass  for a dance routine, its not that bad.

Alicia keys i love her new song, beautifull performance, beautifull vocals.

HEY Blogvilleeeee, its been a while i kno, things are getting pretty  serious and tedious at the moment with coursework and all...hope everyones been well.. so i finally got that winter jacket i was looking for, its not the 'Hott' one i thought i would find but i couldnt be bothered to keep looking and im getting cold so yh i settled for some plain thing lol

Toda y was privelledged to attend a 'Vintage Fashion Show' near Tower Hamlets, to my suprise it was really good, it was obviously wierd because i have never really got the whole 'vintage style', but it was good to see it for myself this isobviously my first time at a proper fashion show and it was really cool, i sat there with my legs crossed proper watching the models go past,  the whole process was exciting, had to dress up wear some heels make up...just look good basically...i loved it all, theres me thinking it was a wierd way of dressing not knowing The vogue for vintage clothes attracts fashionistas, stylists, models, fashion students, collectors and costume designers for stage and film. Top designers and celebrities can often be spotted amongst the crowds searching for one-off fashion finds, unfortunetly  i didnt see any :(
 80s draped shoulder jersey military jacket.

Military jackets are seriously stylish

The mister has been telling me for ages now about military jackets and how hot they are and how i should get one ( his a bit of a fashionista in his own right) and ive not really taken notice of him, untill recently when i actually understood what he was on about, they are seriously hot and in at the moment...im yet to get 'The One' ....ive got a lil leather one but im still looking for that hot cake...you should invest in one as welll....
p.s watch out for padded sholders as well ;)
xxx

Statement Knitwear

Been seeing alot of statment knitwear around its the easiest way to add a touch of drama to any outfit, they look great on a simple vest top and skinny jeans.


  

Ladies know your worth

Someone was telling me about some girl that I know who has become wild and has been labelled with the term ‘First Degree Hoe’….. when I heard this I wasn’t to shocked, not because I thought she was a hoe but because I knew she suffered from Low self Esteem and Insecurities and I knew that when she got to Uni she would definitely head down that way…that’s not to say that girls dat suffer from low self esteem will head down that road, but because I actually know this girl inside out.


I know a lot of girls that are very insecure, we all face insecurities no matter how strong we are, everyone has an insecurity its just how we deal with it that makes it different, Insecurity is a sense of feeling worthless, where you condemn yourself so badly and find it hard to accept when good comes your way it also gives you low self esteem


Ladies who do suffer from low self esteem and go off and do stupid things or condemn yourself, please stop You are so beautiful! Not only are you beautiful but you have the ability to be talented and gifted by God.


Hold your head up and know that you are loved and appreciated. Don't give people any place to cause you to have low self-esteem or doubt. You are indeed fearfully and wonderfully made. Just remember that the words you speak from your mouth determine your outcome, your thoughts design your outcomes. Why not speak good and positive things over your life?
Learn to love who He has made you. There is no one like you.


Guys like a challenge, they like the whole idea of pursuing a girl.  they may not like being rejected, but being able to walk all over a girl is way worse. Respect yourself if you want to be loved. Guys wont love someone they don’t respect.

The beautifull Janet Jacksons full interview

Shes so beautifull, this was such an awesome interview, she co operated well answered the questions the best way she could, she was so down to earth and calm, you can see the sadness in her eyes. She seems so genuine, , definately doesnt look 40, and thats not just some good makeup, Loved the interview, and she made me look at JD in a different light, and we all know there still together lol

this was her best interview yet,compared to all other ones shes had over her liftime where she acts and talks like a dysfunctional person, Rihanna,  please take note, this is the way to do an interview. Robin did a great job with this interview, she clicked well with Janet Jackson

i loved this new Janet, the woman Janet, the sophisticated, matured lady. God bless her

FOR THE GUYS..DUDES..MANDEM, WATEVA YALL CALL YOURSELVES

good early mmorning bloville,
Someone just messaged me in my honesty box,(HONESTY BOX hmmm watch out for the post on that..coming soon) telling me to write a post on how i feel a man should treat his lady....im guessing it was a guy judging from the way he was speaking, and since im awake i might as well post it now.... p.s i am no love doctor, just a fellow female who is passionate about realionships and using my expectations also making someone happy by doing what was requested.... ill do it in bullet points :)

• RESPECT HER!!
• Compliment her. It will mean a lot to her. Yet be truthful
• Be yourself. Don't put on a fake show of yourself
• Don't use her!!! It'll only lead to trouble in the end.
• When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention. Make sure you listen to her and talk to her. Just sitting beside her doesn't count as time together.
• Gifts don't need reasons to be given. Give your girlfriend gifts on normal days
• Girls are not things, and don't like to be treated like objects. Avoid being too possessive of them
• Be as confident as you can - women love confident men. However, don't take it too far - if too confident, women will find you arrogant and egoistic
• Learn to spend time with her, call the shots ask her out to the movies dinner i dunno somewhere nice, if she always has to ask if you want to go out trust me she will soon lose intrest.
• Don't overdo it
• Be a Good Man. Honestly will go a long way with a female
• Treat a women Well and she will totally forget that you are not a millionaire lool
• Dont be a wuss tell her you love her (please only say it if you really do lol)
• Observe her attitude if you notice she's having mood swings randomly....well its probably the time of the month :)

HOWEVER ITS QUITE UNFORTUNATE THAT GUYS CANNOT POSSES ALL THESE QUALITIES....NOT EVEN CHUCK BASS *SIGH* .... HOPE IVE ENLIGHTEND YOU A BIT ANONYMOUS :)

Video Phone

Beyonces new song Video Phone is really really pissing me off, the married woman is gyrating around looking like some loose hoe, she needs to behave herself man put some clothes on and do positive decent songs, her voice is more than beautifull and shes using it on rubbish like this....

Sorry isnt this the same Beyonce that did Nasty Girl with D.C insulting girls who dont dress properly ....like look who is talking, argh shes getting on my nerves as i type.

I actually am a fan of Beyonce, but corrupting young girls to sell a few extra records is nothing short of hypocrisy, Shouldn't she be telling young girls not to tape themselves on their video phones kmtt!! She looks like a total slut. She danced like a pole stripper the entire time.
She has countless girls that look up to her, is she teaching them to be whores?

Oo and Gaga needs to get out that video, she looks odd what is she doing, looks like she's on flippin Crack.... there wasn't even a flipping telephone in the video.

Peep the video below


***SIGH SIGH SIGH***

I WANT KNOW WHAT LOVE IS

I must say i do like this song alot by Mariah Carey

loving the Chiors involvment, the videos wack though..but a great song

ughhhhhhhhh

I saw this as someone's display picture on facebook.....So.. the point of this pic is?
Ewwwwwwwww... For God's sake this babe should be a little decent.. Ii think this is sooo disgusting!

Yeh maybe she has an incredible body but yeh dont go off wearing your skin and trying to look sexy. this outfit has no class and she just looks like a poor girl that was fed well to grow in the right places, bagged a celeb boyfriend. ewww.
Anyways going back to work.xx

Jimmy Choo draws crowds

Unfortunetly for me i happended to be in Oxford Circus, when The H&M doors opend to launch their much-anticipated Jimmy Choo range. Come and see people shoving and pushing and grabbing boxes, one would think there was no such thing as a recession, i walked right in to see what all the hype was about and i walked right out again, i couldnt take it.... i couldnt see what anything i liked, the prces haha lets not even go there... and i nearly got hit by some silly woman that was gettin emotional when some other lady took her shoe box, not to mention she already had like 5 safe guarded under her arm.

woww i couldnt belive it, i hear H&M sales have fallen doe because of Jimmy Choo, like duhh what did they think would happen, apparently people were even pitching tents outside stores i literally Laugh Out Loud.....

But i must say, Jimmy Choo was recived with a lot of love, never knew people were really on Jimmy Choo,  even in the rain peoplewere dedicated and determined to get their products .....amazing stuff

Madona wanted to be in what???

Ladies and Gents (if there are any gents that read this lol) its been a while ino, its not easy all this Uni work, been busy busy busy, but God help us alll,

Ok so i recently posted something on the movie 'Precious' and ever since then ive been following it up because im really excited to watch it (NEXT YEAR KMT) anyway, so i found out that Madonna was meant to be in this movie as well, haha like what the hell???

Madonna has no business in film…like none, and nobody bring up Evita because it was minimal acting and all singing.
Thank God Madonna did not get to touch this movie……….i probably would not want to see it if she did, and thats real.
Madonna may have won a Golden Globe, but she is no Streisand when it comes to making films. I don't think she would have understood the sensibilities of the characters in this movie

Madonna barely became a credible singer after 25 years. (She is a fine dancer, though.)

She has plenty to spend, but, please, all her attempts at becoming a credible actress have been for naught

Men can cry there is no rule that man should'nt cry

I have come to the conclusion that Men can cry nearly as much as women. Men can cry when someone dies, they can cry if they are hurt,  they can even cry when a movie is sad. The only time we don't accept men crying, is when it is to their own advantage, to try and save a relationship, to manipulate or to hurt a woman.
 If a man cries from genuine emotion, love and keep that man, cause he will love you for evermore It's good to be in touch of your feelings and by showing emotion it shows you care


But try not be a REAL MOIST WASTEMAN It depends oh why he's crying and where. I personally think it is pathetic-like, but some girls think it's sweet. It really does depend, though. If a girl wouldn't cry about it, then a guy shouldn't. But like if someone died or something bad like that, then I think that would be cool. if your crying over spilt milk, your a loser She will not respect you. She will say she will, but inside, she will lose respect for you. 
(this is only if its over minor things, so don't worry guys lol)

You have to install confidence in a woman, to make her feel special and protected. Don't cry over pathetic things, or if she has decide to break up with you, as long as it's not because him and his girlfriend are fighting. that's annoying ,that man probably wears thongs.

red lipstick

So i was looking through some girls pictures on Facebook and she was wearing red lipstick and it totally freaked me out, the lipstick did no justice to her whatsoever, i mean red lipstick come on dats a very daring thing to dabble in.





 The red has to be a red that looks good on your skin tone. I'm not seeing ANYONE wearing a color that looks good on them. If you put it on and all you see is your mouth, that's the wrong shade. If it's too bright, tone it down with a muted shade over it. Blot it. Play with it until it looks right. It may not be a fire engine shade that looks best on you. Red lipstick is officialy super sexy hott, it has been for a while now and yet to be outdated.

I really love red lipstick, and im always in boots  messing around trying on lipstick and trying to find the right shade that suits me, as much as i love it  untill im comfortable confident and have found the right shade you will not catch me in it.


I totally do NOT believe that red lipstick can suit everyone, even hotties like Jessica Alba can get it wrong with red lipstick.
But to that lady with the hurendous red lips...sorry abborrit next time just look for a good shade dat makes your dark skin tone....
peace out 
xxxx